The Gathering
of Men

TGOM is an opportunity to disconnect from the noise of the modern world. A place where you can reconnect to nature and remember who you truly are without all the labels, rules and regulations of society. It has been created to offer men from all walks of life a space to reset their nervous systems. TGOM is where a man can reflect on his life, expand his capacity for responsibility, create deep bonds with other men and step fully into the next season of manhood. At its core, TGOM is an embodied prayer — a prayer that every man remembers his innate power and cultivates the skills required to serve humanity in a way that only a man can. When you strip away the labels, the trophies, the possessions and the money — at our core, we are all men. Together we share the responsibility of building a healthy, resilient culture of masculinity that can serve all humans now and for generations to come.

Most of our information sources have been poisoned. What was once celebrated as pure is now seen as toxic and unnecessary. But just like water sustains life, masculinity sustains culture. Without it we become lost in comfort; we lose ourselves indulging in convenience. The result is lonely men isolated by packaged foods, work-from-home, video games and pornography — set up to live numb, unfulfilled and passive lives. This is not OK. As men, it is our duty to redefine what it means to be a man. News stations, universities, social media, politicians, ChatGPT — none of these have the ability to define what a man is. We must cultivate a deep connection with ourselves, with each other and with nature to reveal the true essence of man. TGOM is the convergence of men's communities — a united front where we deepen our roots and grow in service to the collective. A 4-day immersion to challenge yourself, cultivate masculinity, and connect as a brotherhood.

All-In Experiences — embodiment-focused, whole group. Workshops (choose your own adventure) — attend one of the workshops on offer, delivered by a range of men's-work leaders. The Morning Practice — movement, mindfulness and connection to prime the day. Pod Check-ins — a daily men's council; you're in a 12-man pod with two pod leaders, to share deeply and be seen, heard, held. Live Presentations — poetry, initiation-based storytelling, Q+A panels. Plus the unscripted moments that make TGOM special: shared meals, sun, swimming in the creek, and sitting around the fire.

Any man — the man who wants to be both challenged and celebrated. You are the man who feels caged by modern society, is looking for direction, is open to being called forward, craves challenge, is aware he can't do it alone, is willing to fail and recommit, and wants to know what he's truly capable of. TGOM is a place where men of all ages, races and locations gather to remember the Sacred Duty of Manhood.

18 without a guardian; 13 with a guardian. Everyone must sign a waiver before the event. Last year's age range was 13–84.

Bedding (swag, or tent with sheets, blankets, pillow), a chair, four sets of clothes, a warm jacket, boardshorts, a hat, toiletries and two towels, cutlery, a mug/cup and water bottle, a notebook and pen, musical instruments, and a yoga mat or picnic blanket. Optional: a sacred item for the altar (a photo, crystal, feather, ring, etc.).

All men are welcome. Send an enquiry or book a call so we can cater for you. In previous years, men have joined with their support worker.

Every activity is an invitation. You may opt out — there are multiple spaces and facilitators for support. We run a buddy system so all men are accounted for; tell your buddy and pod leader if you step away.

Numinbah Valley, Gold Coast Hinterland. The full address is provided on booking. It's 60 minutes from Gold Coast Airport, 90 minutes from Brisbane City, and 90 minutes from Byron Bay. Carpooling is encouraged — a group chat is provided.

All meals over the four days (breakfast, dinner and a midday snack), filtered water, the campsite (BYO camping and bedding; interstate flyers may get help), all activities and experiences, the TGOM Workbook, two integration calls, and the post-retreat online masterclasses.

Be a man, fill out the Participant Intake Form, and sign the Participant Waiver. That's it.

Share your mental-health status in the intake form; we may reach out to discuss the best option, or you can book a call with the leadership team.

Two integration calls with your pod (led by your pod leader), online masterclasses with each facilitator across October to December 2026, and ongoing connection in the TGOM ONLINE Facebook group.

A partial refund is available if cancelled 30 or more days before the event: 50% minus a $50 admin fee. Any ticket fees are non-refundable. Tickets are transferable to another man at no fee, with written (email) notice at least 48 hours before the event.